Maureen Hosier, the author of the book, [i]“You'll Do Anything for Her,” presents readers with a new perspective on how to understand what's going on inside many, many people emotionally when they focus on their partner's needs and feelings to the exclusion of their own.[/i]
To make their relationship work?
To “try” to make their relationship work?
If you are a person who focuses on “taking care of” your partner's needs and feelings without your conscious awareness, you possibly, probably, are in a one-person relationship. Without your conscious awareness, you “make” only one person, your partner, holding the position of importance above your self.
And the person you choose, likely needs someone like you, who will focus on their needs and feelings and give up yourself for Her. Without your awareness, you give up your “self” to meet your partner's needs and feelings. You “try” to make your relationship work for Her. You believe it's “just who you are.” It's just “how you love.”
Unconsciously, do you believe that you are not worth being loved? Are you hoping that she will love you back? The end result? Your partner focuses on themselves too. You are in a one-person relationship where two partners focus on one partner's needs and feelings. Your partner's feelings and needs are of primary importance. Her needs and feelings come before yours.
This breakout self-help book, entitled “You'll Do Anything for Her,” focuses on the you, who finds yourself giving up yourself to make the relationship work for your partner. Maureen's professional efforts have been to explain this process so people can understand that there is nothing “wrong” with them. Their relationship ways were learned and perfected in their childhood relationships with their parents.
There is no blame here. Your parents had parents too. Your parents passed on to you how they were related with by their parents and also how they related with each other and then with you.
The author brings attention to her readers to become aware of their own genuine and authentic needs and feelings, learning to include themselves in the partnership and what works for themselves too.
Thus, building a relationship that works for you both. Or not.
Your partner may only be interested in your focusing on her and her needs and feelings.
Your relationship can only become a partnership when you both consider each other's needs and feelings in decision making.
The book, “You'll Do Anything for Her”, explains what has happened in your past as a child and what is happening in your present relationship for you to automatically give up yourself to make your relationship work for Her.
Read more. Order a copy of Maureen Hosier's “You'll Do Anything for Her” on Amazon or Barnes & Noble. Make sure to visit the author's website at maureenehosierphd.com.
About the Author
The author is a licensed clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles who specializes in helping individuals improve their self-esteem and self-confidence in various types of relationships.
She has written two books, You'll Do Anything for Him and “You'll Do Anything for Her,” which provide a framework for understanding why people may feel unloved or uncared for in their relationships.
Her books have received numerous awards, including the Writer's Digest Self-Published Awards, the Maxy Awards, the Nonfiction Book Authors Award, the Living Now Awards, the Paris Book Festival, and the San Francisco Chronicle Book Awards.
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